Showing posts with label family time. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family time. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Do You Have a Book About That?




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My four year old came screaming into the house carrying a bird's nest.  At the top of his lungs he yelled, "MOM!, look what I found!  Do we have a book about this?"
My husband looked at me, raised one eyebrow and shook his head.  He muttered, "you've ruined that boy!".  "HA!"  I replied.  What I had done was trained a life-long learner.
 
As soon as I realized my youngest child was not as interested as I was in all the animal books we owned, we purchased a set of science encyclopedias.  His favorite was the one on electricity.  That volume became dog-eared and marked up with dozens of "stickee" arrows. It was with that volume that a doorbell was installed on his room door when he was in second grade and countless other projects were wired for action and sound.
 
He made rocket ships from toilet paper tubes, invented robots and floating motorized boats from balloons.  Miles of duct tape and glue flowed through our house.  Q-Tips became swinging bridges, boxes became mazes and drum sets.  Baby birds were hatched and science experiments were conducted on plants.
 
His curiosity knew no boundaries. 
And each time, he consulted a book before take-off into the next adventure. 
 
As he got older he was not a fan of reading for pleasure.  However, he could devour an instruction manual in minutes and read for information with ease and understanding.  We subscribed to magazines of interest for him during his teen years.  One of his favorites was on radio controlled cars.  He read them until the pages were worn.  It wasn't long before he could tear apart a car and rebuild it.  We went to races and the back yard became a race track.  Grass was planted when he outgrew this hobby and now our back yard has a beautiful dry creek bed fully landscaped.  I never regret the conversion of the back yard into a race track all those years.  I knew where my child was.  He was learning and involved in a healthy sport.  It kept him busy and out of trouble. 
 
It was all very, very good.



The chair in the photo above still takes residence in our home.  I can not bear to part with it.  For you see, this chair sat between my children's beds for many years.  Until the boys were in High School, we rarely missed a night of reading, even if bedtime found itself in the late night hours.  Just one chapter or one small book did not take much time and completed our day.  The memories shared in this chair are priceless and hold a treasured spot in my heart.   My children are now 25 and 30 years old.  The chair has several holes, which I have lovingly placed patches over.  One leg is quite temperamental, so the sitter must do so with care.  I suspect that it will remain with me long after other furniture has come and gone.  Its presence not only stirs up warm memories, it stands for an a very important reminder.  The desire to acquire knowledge and the ability to read are two things that will make our children successful in life.

I try to read with my grandchild during each visit.  I want the legacy of reading to carry on to the next generation.  For you see, the really intelligent person does necessarily know all the answers.  They know where and how to find the answers.  And whether or not that answer is found in a book or on-line, it all involves READING.  Reading is the cornerstone of living independently and the basis of all learning. 

     Reading ideas:

         Book - you read to them... they can read to you.
             Even older children enjoy reading chapter books together as a family
         Magazine
         Comics from the newspaper
         Newspaper
         Recipe
         Instructions to a game or toy
 
 

What will you and your child read today?

 
 

Inspired from the book:
Miraculous, Magical Moments in Minutes:

Over 500 Quick, Easy Activities for Adults and Children to Share

by Becky Baxa
Available from http://www.Amazon.com
in both Kindle and Paperback versions
 
 


Thursday, January 23, 2014

What Do You think?

It is rather exciting! 

Creating Magical Moments Blog has people peeking in from over 18 countries.

 
We would like to know what you think? 
 
What brings you back to this site?  What are you looking for?
 
 What type of activities would you like to see more of? 
 
What are some of your interests?  Activity needs?
 
We would love to "meet" you and your family!
 
Looking forward to hearing from you.
 

Make sure you spend some magical moments with your kids today! 

Soak up some family fun!

Friday, January 11, 2013

The Important Things in Life...


Did you make a New Year's resolution this year?  It's not too late to add one more.  
A resolution that will benefit you and your family forever.  
How much time do you spend each day interacting and communicating with your family?  
Spouse?  Children?  
Most people overestimate the number of minutes they spend daily with their loved ones. 

“Our greatest danger in life is in permitting the urgent things 
to  crowd out the important.”    
—Charles E.  Hummel

 "Before you move on, try this experiment. Set a timer for one minute (or have someone watch the second hand on a watch to help you).  Just sit or stand (don’t peek!) and experience what a minute feels like.   
Take note of when you think the minute is over.  Was it longer than you thought it would be?  
 Most people say “YES!”

 
Brainstorm ideas of what you could have done with your child in that minute. How many things can you think of to do in that length of time?  It can be as simple as counting, singing a song, counting how many seconds it takes the light to change to green, blowing bubbles, etc.   Pretty impressive, huh?



We often think that quality time takes too much quantity of time, effort or even money!

But, it only takes a collection of minutes invested EVERY DAY to make wonderful memories and build stronger, deeper relationships.


"If you remember back to your most pleasant childhood memories, they probably didn’t  involve the big things. You might have remembered the little, simple, uncomplicated, consistent interactions with the adults you love.  It was the little pieces you saved and treasured that produced the beautiful memory quilt of your life."

Wishing you many magical moments!

Source:  Miraculous, Magical Moments in Minutes by Becky B. Baxa  page 9








Wednesday, May 23, 2012

The Importance of Family Time

We know we should spend time with our family and they should be a top priority.  Why is it then that work and other responsibilities frequently squeeze out that valuable time together?    Charles Hummel said, "Our greatest danger in life is in permitting the urgent things to crowd out the important".  Below is a link that talks about the value of taking a time-out with your family.  It is a part of the Family Time sermon series by Dave Armstrong from First Christian Church in Washington, Missouri.

"Time Out" from the Family Time Series. Dave Armstrong sermon with immediate application by Becky Baxa

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